I loved this read, Bernie. It feels good to be seen. You are right when you say that most people avoid bringing up the subject at all, making the bereaved feel more alone and misunderstood. I also hate when people assume that just because time has passed, the subject isn't still relevant. I lost my good friend two years ago and thinking about it still hurts just as bad. Every years on his birthday, or the day he left us, is very emotional and I wish people understood that.