My partner is an only child and doesn't resemble any of the negative consequences you list at the start of the story. Honestly, I selfishly may only want one kid because I like the idea of being able to give my full attention to their health and wellbeing. I never want my children to only be given half of my love because I'm too busy and overwhelmed trying to raise them. I think it's really cool you checked in with your daughter and got her input. Thanks for sharing.