Our bodies are constantly talking; most of the time, we just don't take the time to listen. Great story and food for thought. I'm not sure if I'm honest or trusting, but I leave my journal in the living room at all times. I've never even considered my partner reading it. And I'd like to think that even if he did, nothing in there would be news to him. I tend to be an open book! He, on the other hand, is more closed off and has a difficult time expressing his emotions; it's much harder for men because of the past conditioning you mentioned. That being said, you writing this article is huge and sure to encourage others.