Thank you for this story, Charlotte. My therapist and I have started talking more about the potential of me having ADHD and/or Autism. I have been looking into both to try and understand myself better. When I looked up the tag "adhd in women," your story was the first to catch my eye. And this all resonated so deeply!!
I actually wrote a story a while back about how I quit things often. "Maybe I'll always be this way," I said. I'm starting to realize that perhaps this is one of those ADHD traits I've let go unrecognized. It feels so validating to read stories like yours, so thank you. I still hate being asked what I do, or what I want to do because it's constantly changing!
Here's my story if you feel up to reading:
https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/maybe-ill-always-be-this-way-fd15bc95b9d4