This hit home. Thank you, Dana, for describing your experience in more detail. I can see areas where our paths are similar, and areas where they differ.
I'm really glad getting a diagnosis has provided you more clarity and peace. Even though your home life was relatively stable, it's still nice being able to look back and have a greater understanding of certain situations and events.
I'm finding my own version of peace and acceptance every day. You are right: a few missing facts here and there do not determine my worth.
Thanks, again, for reading and sharing your thoughts.